alright after going through this forum one page at a time reading every thread marked phpmyadmin I found several theads with the same question. Until finally got the answer to this issue, in this
threadin the phpmyadmin.conf file in the alias directory (C:\\wamp\alias\phpmyadmin.conf)
change
order deny
allow from 127.0.0.1
to
order allow, deny
allow from all
when I opened the file the solution was glaring at me
this is what the file says
Alias /phpmyadmin "c:/wamp/apps/phpmyadmin2.10.1/"
# to give access to phpmyadmin from outside
# replace the lines
#
# Order Deny,Allow
# Deny from all
# Allow from 127.0.0.1
#
# by
#
# Order Allow,Deny
# Allow from all
#
<Directory "c:/wamp/apps/phpmyadmin2.10.1/">
Options Indexes FollowSymLinks MultiViews
AllowOverride all
Order Allow,Deny
Allow from all
</Directory>
so there is the answer that many people have been looking for.