Ok so here is what i did and i got it to work woo hooo!!!!
download this. Its a send mail for windows. [
www.glob.com.au]
on your c drive create the folders c:/usr/lib
Copy the sendmail.exe and sendmail.ini in there
this is what i have in my phpini
[mail function]
; For Win32 only.
SMTP = 192.168.33.254
; For Win32 only.
sendmail_from =
your@youraddress.com; For Unix only. You may supply arguments as well (default: "sendmail -t -i"

.
sendmail_path = /usr/lib/
Did all this restarted my services and bamm it worked. Let me know how you make out. I have my smtp using another server to send,